How to behave with a Professional Domina

What things should you not do?

Do not arrive without preparation

Carry out whatever task I have given you, with exact precision.
Take care not to arrive hungry, tired or in a bad mood. Eat, rest, clear your mind and take a few minutes to internalize your role as a submissive.
Ask if the Domina has a shower (in my case, yes) you should shower before the session. Wash your private parts and if you are going to play anal games, have hygiene before the session also from behind. If the Domina is not a smoker (as is my case) do not smoke before the session, or if you do, brush your teeth or have a minty caramel before the session, it also applies to meals with garlic, onion or similar.

Don't make a bad first impression

Arrive on time and if you can, notify by message of your arrival. If you have any unforeseen, let us know. Being early is as bad as being late.
If a receptionist opens the door, say hello with kindness and be aware that the session has not yet started.
Be courteous, polite, and obedient from the start.
Be discreet when you arrive and when you leave the studio. If you arrive before you can enter the room, it is preferable to wait in the car or take a short walk nearby. Obviously, arriving in an outfit other than street clothes would be an indiscretion. Don't talk about BDSM near the room. Don't play games outside the room.

Don't expect or even ask for, nudity or sex:

As a rule, unless a Domina announces such activities, she will not take off her clothes or allow you to kiss intimate body parts. She won't do anything that ends with -job. Enjoy those services with escorts. There will be no sex of any kind, not at all, never, none.

Don't ruin the session

Do what the Domina orders you, immediately, without hesitation.
Give yourself up, talk, make noises, create feedback in the game but never shout out loud without express permission from the Domina. We have ears and neighbors.
Express yourself if you feel like the Domina is pushing you beyond your limits.
Do not touch the Domina without permission. Not even a light touch on the shoulder, a handshake, a kiss, or a hug. Consider this a warning: It is really dangerous to touch a Mistress without permission.
Don't make inappropriate suggestions like "have a date." Don't ask personal questions or uncomfortable comments, not even about the Domina's physique. Remember your place ... you are neither his friend nor his partner.
Have realistic expectations and do not try to adapt the Domina to a script, if you are open to your way of making sure that you enjoy.

What things should you do?

Bring the essentials

If you have not previously talked about your "curriculum", bring it the day of the session.
You can bring an offering as a token of respect: flowers, a gift card, wine, candles, a small BDSM toy, something from your wishlist, etc.
Bring the exact amount of the tribute or with a tip for the Domina.
If you want the Domina to use any of your toys during the session, send them a description of it (if possible with photos) beforehand and keep it clean.

Start on the right foot

Take the initiative regarding the deposit, ask how much it is and how to do it before the Mistress has to ask you. If she does, do it quickly to show her you don't want to waste her time.
Do not pressure the Domina to agree to carry out practices that she says she does not do, the limits must be respected on both sides.
Answer the questions the Mistress asks you to gather information, then explain your expectations regarding the session.
Do not expect special acts, there are things that are gained over time, if the Domina at any time wants to have a detail with you.
Do not exaggerate your experience or your limits.
Don't tell the Mistress that she can do whatever she wants with you. If you do, be aware of the consequences.

Be a good sub

Do not attempt to manipulate or exercise power over your Domina.
Trust her to remember your preferences and limits, don't ask her if she'll do "such a thing" or "such a thing." Let the session flow and do its work.
If you wait, get on your knees in front of her (except if she has ordered you to do something else).
Unless his orders are different, keep your eyes down.
Ask her how she wants you to address her, if you have not spoken, call her: Lady, Mistress, Goddess, Mistress, Domina, Lady ...
As a general rule, ask permission before speaking "Madam, can I speak?"
She kisses (with permission) her boot, shoe or whatever she presents for you to adore.
The main way to move around the room when you're tied around the neck is on all fours.
Be aware of your own limits during the session. Do not try to impress by overcoming them and help the Mistress to know them.
Control and report your blood circulation during the session. If parts of your body fall asleep with any bodily restriction, inform the Mistress as soon as possible.
If you feel dizzy or any type of physical discomfort, tell them. Experienced Femdoms will allow time at the end of the session for physical, emotional and mental recovery before leaving (the after care). Aftercare is an important responsibility that all qualified Femdoms take seriously.
Thank him for all he does.

See Mistress again

Give feedback a couple of days after the session and send it to him.
Offer to help her clean, disinfect, and put away the toys, also tell her that you can take the trash and throw it in the dumpster on the way out.
After a session, you will feel so good that you could float ... so before you go show your gratitude, tell her how good the session was and that you hope to see her again. What's more, book your next session at that time, the more in advance, the better.
You don't need to tip a Femdom, however, if the session was good, go ahead ... it's something that will show you how much you liked the session.
Do not extend the time after the session with an infinite talk, understand that she may have another client waiting in a short time and does not want to tell you about her next client or that you cross paths with her.

Of course, these are all simple suggestions, each Professional Domina has her own preferences, but any professional (or amateur) Domina will surely be happy to conduct a session with a submissive who shows promise by following these protocols.